Where is the Love?

What Love is cannot be physically defined or determined. All physical determinations and definitions answer doing questions. Doing questions are defined as who, what, when, where, why, and how, will I get my proposed answer to my question? The physical application of answering these 6 questions may be emotionally motivated, however getting an answer requires getting something from someone else, or motivating someone else to do something. Doing this is force or manipulation, for Love does not ask anyone to do anything.

The value that comes from doing is a physical reward. This reward is generally money, but not always. The value reward that comes from doing is actually an emotional trick, or psychological blackmail set into place to teach us our value comes to us, and not from us. What comes to us is external, and what comes from us is internal. What comes from us cannot be given away, but we have learned to believe it can.

Once we physically learn value must come to us, we will seek to establish this as a primary goal to satisfy the need to be self worthy. Whenever we are deprived of external physical value, there will be extreme anxiety, and a general feeling that we are going to lose something we need to maintain our dignity and honor. We will look for a way to stabilize the situation by asking the 6 basic questions, of who, what, when, where, why, or how. Once all of these questions have been answered, external self value has been restored, and we will temporarily feel back in control of our dignity and honor, until the next time.

The belief we must get what we already own comes from physical belief, and has nothing to do with Self Value. All Self Value comes from Love. Everyone knows it is impossible for physical value to give us self worth, but when we do not have the physical means to show what we believe gives us value, we become depressed, anxious, and generally guilty and ashamed. These feelings bring up irrational fears, which are promoted in the physical world as a means of punishment. For instance, if we cannot pay our bills, we are constantly reminded of this through a credit report, a bill collector, and eventually loss of what we physically own. In a way, this is a self inflicted punishment for honoring and giving integrity to what we physically own instead of giving it to the value of our Self.

Dignity and honor cannot come from doing anything. These traits are inherent in everyone when they are born. Honor and integrity come from the stability of Love. The fact that we are inherently born with these should help us to understand we are not just physical doers; but are in fact emotional beings, which is defined by Living Love.

Doing anything cannot redefine our emotional integrity, but somewhere along the line physical education taught us we can be something else other than the Love that Created us. The something else we learn is how to attach emotional self worth to a physical experience, which is supposed to prove our self worth.

Psychologically, most of our emotional attachments are formed by the time we are 5. Everything we learn before we are 5 teaches us the external world has the value we must have for survival. As this information becomes firmly planted in our mind, external things become a frame of reference, or a memory, for finding value. Eventually, all of our memories become attached to a reference of who, what, when, where, why, or how.

When I am a child, if I want something to eat, my frame of reference is external, which is defined by someone else giving me what I need. If this need is not met, I will begin to find way to get it met. This is force or manipulation. Eventually learn that everything my body needs to survive comes from something outside of me. I become so caught up in the external way of getting my needs met, my honor and integrity begins to be associated with what I need, instead of what I want. This is obviously displaced Love, for Living Love honors the value of the emotional Self of what is wanted, not the external value of need.

All emotional Self Value coming from Love is defined as free will, faith, appreciation, and peace. When all of these come together as One and in Wholeness, emotional maturity and whole Living Love emerges perfectly in the Now. Because Now is the only application of time that is real, all questions are answered in perfect order without loss to anyone. In innocence, we learn how to split up our emotional integrity and give it away for a cheap physically assigned lesson. This lesson hinges on learning guilt. In other words, your needs will be physically met if you dishonor your integrity, which is your Self value. Each time our integrity is punished for speaking out of turn, guilt takes the place of innocence, and we learn our free will is only pertinent if we assign it guilt. When we are told to clean our room, the value of cleanliness comes down to appreciation for an allowance. If we do not clean our room, we do not show appreciation, so we are not given it. This teaches us to punish appreciation. When we need a pair of shoes, our parents place their faith in money to get our provisions met; thus we learn money is our safety. When we cannot get what we believe we need to establish self value, peace is lost until the physical need can be met.

We are in need of nothing except the emotional Self Value of the honor and integrity of unconditional Love. Without our Love quotient in the proper order, we are out of alignment and once removed from the Value of Living Love, which gives to us simply for the fact we are Love and Loved. This is our real Self Value.

In case you have not noticed, when you are in alignment with Perfect Love, everything flows with certainty. The fact is, miracles occur naturally as expressions of Love when we are not interfering with a pursuit of a false sense value. The value of our world must change. The Self Value of honor and integrity, which comes from free will, faith, appreciation, and peace, must be returned to the one who inadvertently gave it away for something else. A gap in reality has occurred, which is an unnatural void. This void must be filled with Love, for that is the Natural Order of everything.

The corrections required to untangle false emotional value from emotional integrity requires an act of Perfect Order. It is obvious this world is not privy to this information. The name of the Plan to restore our mind to Self honor is called One Wholeness Now. Perfect Love has been called into question, and only Perfect Love can answer it. A question such as this cannot be left in physical hands. The solution must come from Order that does not hear the call of guilt or fear as a means of correction. Love is our answer. It was the only one in the beginning, and it remains so.